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20 SUBTLE SIGNS OF A FAKE PERSON


Halow everyone and welcome today, we're going to learn about 20 subtle signs of a fake person.

1. THE SOCIAL PEACOCK

Almost every fake person wants to be the center of attention they have high self-esteem but rarely have enough self-awareness to keep their arrogance under warps in other words, fake people are like peacocks showing off their feathers they gloat, brag, and boast at very opportunity because in their mind, there is nothing more important than bolstering their image.

2. RECKLESS REFLECTION

When we're alone, most of us spend time thinking about our lives we take time to consider the needs of our loved ones, think deeper about our choices, and reflect on our mistakes but a fake person has no interest in reflecting on what they've done wrong they rarely reconsider their thoughts or actions and don't change their minds once they've made them up it doesn't matter how ridiculous they sound or how many people they've upset a fake person makes no effort or change their mind why? Because they care more about their reputation than the words and ideas they represent.

3. DISINGENUOUS CONNECTIONS

Why do the most disingenuous people have the largest friend groups? Even though it seems like they have dozens of friends, fake people rarely spend any time deepening those connections they brag  about all the important people they know they drop names and pretend to be social butterflies but all their "friends" might as well be strangers fake people may know surface-level facts and superficial details about a large group of people, but 99% of their relationships never extend below the surface.

4. HIDDEN RESENTMENT

When a fake person is upset about something, they don't say it out loud instead, they allow their resentment to simmer in the back of their mind they put on a fake smile and say nice things untill the moment you leave the room you may never see this terrible side of them, but a phony person shows their true colors only when you're not around.

5. ONE-SIDED ATTENTION

Do you know someone who doesn't listen when you talk? Whenever they say something, they expect you undivided attention they get angry  if you're not listening and accus you of being a lousy friend each time you forget a tiny detail about their life of course, they hardly know or remember anything about yours when you're together, they don't listen to a word you say because, in their mind, your friendship is all about them.

6. SELECTIVE RESPECT

Most people respect everyone they meet, regardless of rank or status but fake people are overwhelmingly biased toward people they view as powerful or successful immediately, they change their responsibilities and exhibit overly kind or gracious behavior if you know someone who changes around the rich and powerful, they may not be the kind of person you can trust.

7. TOO MANY COMMITMENTS

Fake people have a bad habit of spreading themselves too thin they make promises to everyone, but in the end, they only follow through on a small percentage of their commitments they readily leave friends and coworkers out to dry in some cases, they don't even bother to apologize this bad habit shows a lack of investment in thier friendships and relationships chances are this person does not see you as a priority in their life they may tell you otherwise but remember actions speak louder than words.

8. BIASED PERSPECTIVES

Many fake people are remarkably narrow-minded they're unwilling to listen when others challenge or ask questions about their viewpoints they generally don't consider other people's perspectives, even if that person knows more than they do instead, fake people expect everyone to agree with everything they say they won't hesitate to shame and criticize you if you don't.

9. THE ONE AND ONLY SUBJECT

If you've ever spent time with a fake person, you know that one subject entertains them like no other fake people love talking about themselves in fact, they have a hard time discussing  any other topic they can hardly stay focused when you try to talk about your issues but as soon as the conversation returns to their life, fake people are endlessly entertained.

10. THE BURDEN OF FRIENDSHIP

Do you know someone who never takes the initiative? For some reason, it's always your responsibility to organize dates or hangouts you're always suggesting things you can do together, but it's never the other way around why? because this person doesn't see you as an important or valuable person in their life they place the responsibility for your friendship on your shoulders because, despite what they say, they don't care enough to take the initiative.

11. BACK-HANDED COMPLIMENTS

Fake people are highly judgmental of the people around them while others try to appriciate people's best qualities, fake people focus on what they dislike most about them, and they find ways to make people feel bad for possessing any weaknesses or flaws one of the ways they bring people down is through backhanded compliments instead of giving you genuine and meaningful praise, they use a positive tone and a pleasant demeanor to subtly destroy your self-esteem .

For example, if you do a great job on a project at work, a fake person might say, "Wow, that was a surprisingly good presentation" While this seems complementary, they're actually implying that your everyday work is poor or below-everage anyone who gives backhanded compliments probably does not care about you or your feelings instead, they're interested in making themselves feel better by making you look worse like any background compliment, these people seem nice on the surface, but the truth is they're anything but your friends.

12. INAUTHENTIC PRIDE

Someone untrustworthy and disingenuous will avoid taking responsibility for their mistakes while others apologize and move forward, fake people look for ways to pass the blame whenever they do something wrong, they flip the problem on its head they make you feel like it's your fault perhaps they try to avoid the problem entirely either way, fake people will say and do almost anything to protect their pride.

13. ULTERIOR MOTIVES

A fake friend is reliable one day and fickle the next they act like your best friend then they want nothing to do with you in short, they are inconsistent, and their inconsistency is driving you to question their intentions if you know someone who is not consistently present, kind, or attentive in your relationship, you have good reason to doubt their motives this person may only be using you when it is convenient for them, dont be surprised if they disappear again soon.

14. SUPERFICIAL PRAISE

To someone with a disingenuous personality, nothing is more rewarding than superficial praise they constantly desire compliments and attention from other people, even if those compliments never go further than skin-deep for fake people, one of the most common outlets is social media not all social media users are disingenuous, but people who spend a lot of time chasing "likes" may value popularity over genuine connections.

15. CONTROLLING THEIR CLIQUE

Fake people use their social status to define their self-worth, it's not uncommon for phony individuals to surround themselves with a clique of socially desperate people in many cases they cling to submissive personalities who make them feel confident and superior this false sense of confidence leads many fake people to assume they have control ever every social situation they maybe the ruler of their clique, but the truth is they aren't as powerful as they think.

16. UNDERMINING BOUNDARIES

In every healthy relationship, people set boundaries to differentiate what is okay from what is not but people don't like being told what to do they go out of their way to question, violate and undermine people's boundaries whenever possible the simple fact is that fake people don't respect your wants or needs they're only interested in themselves, and they won't take no for an answer.

17. SYMPTOMS OF JEALOUSY

A fake person rarely thinks twice before saying something hurtful they don't consider the feelings of others, and they don't pull their punches, even if they're making you or somebody else uncomfortable sometimes, they'll defend their insults and criticisms by saying, "I'm just being honest," or "I'm just saying what everyone is thinking" but that's rarely the case these harsh comments are not representative of how people really feel instead, they're symptoms of jealousy and inferiority a fake person will try to hurt you because they want to bring you down they envy your accomplishments and feel small in your shadow if that happens, a fake person will say almost anything to get back on top.

18. FABRICATED EMOTIONS

If you're friends with someone fake, don't expect them to express their real, honest feelings a phony person may tell you they're being honest or genuine, but it's safe to assume that anything they say is designed to manipulate your feelings often, a fake person will fabricate emotions just to get their way they'll yell and cry, smile and laugh these emotions may look real, but there's a good chance it's all for show.

19. WORKING OVERTIME

For most people, connecting with friends and partners is intimidating and emotional, but it's not exactly "hard" it's doesn't take much work to communicate with someone, even if it is nerve-racking and a bit stressful fake people, on the other hand, do more work than the average person to keep their friendships and relationships alive why? Because they have to act like someone they are not if you know someone who treats their relationships like another chore in their life, they may be working a lot harder than you realize.

20. SOCIAL SMOKESCREEN

How do fake people get away with their disingenuous actions? In many cases, fake people create a social smokescreen, using drama and conflict to distract people from their fake and dishonest personalities for example, a fake person may cover up their mistakes by spreading rumors and gossip about you they'll throw you under the bus they can look better by comparison of course, they'll never do it to your face, but behind closed doors, a fake person will tarnish you reputation to cover up their manipulative behavior.

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